Rumi Reflection 4: Back Pain

Back Pain by Rumi

Muhammad went to visit a sick friend.
Such kindness brings more kindness,
and there is no knowing the proliferation from there.

The man was about to die.
Muhammad put his face close and kissed him.

His friend began to revive.
Muhammad’s visit re-created him.
He began to feel grateful for an illness
that brought such light.

And also for the back pain
that wakes him in the night.

No need to snore away like a buffalo
when this wonder is walking the world.

There are values in pain that are difficult
to see without the presence of a guest.

Don’t complain about autumn.
Walk with grief like a good friend.
Listen to what he says.

Sometimes the cold and dark of a cave
give the opening we most want.

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This poem speaks to me of seeing the value in pain and what can be gained from it.  When you're in a painful or difficult situation whether it is something like back pain or it's heartbreak or grief it's very difficult to in the moment see anything good in it. Pain makes us stronger. It teaches us value lessons that makes us stronger people. Pain can also open doors for us. Sometimes I've lost an opportunity and it's allowed me to be available for an even better one. The same when someone breaks up with you and then you realize they were not the right fit and someone better comes along. Sometimes it's ok ro embrace pain as part of progress.